英语演讲稿：别吝啬一声感谢
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英语演讲稿：别吝啬一声感谢
带怀感恩心，不敢忘却那些曾经给过自己帮助的人。在感恩
节这个特别的日子里，总有一些人让你想起来就觉心头一暖，想
要声对他们说一声感谢！下面小编为大家分享一篇英语演讲稿：
别吝啬一声感谢，希望你喜欢。
英语演讲稿：别吝啬一声感谢
Hi. I'm here to talk to you about the importance of
praise, admiration and thank you, and having it be
specific and genuine.
And the way I got interested in this was, I noticed
in myself, when I was growing up, and until about a few
years ago, that I would want to say thank you to someone,
I would want to praise them, I would want to take in
their praise of me and I'd just stop it. And I asked
myself, why? I felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then my
question became, am I the only one who does this? So, I
decided to investigate.
I'm fortunate enough to work in the rehab facility,
so I get to see people who are facing life and death with
addiction. And sometimes it comes down to something as
simple as, their core wound is their father died without
ever saying he's proud of them. But then, they hear from
all the family and friends that the father told everybody
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else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son.
It's because he didn't know that his son needed to hear
it.
So my question is, why don't we ask for the things
that we need? I know a gentleman, married for 25 years,
who's longing to hear his wife say, "Thank you for being
the breadwinner, so I can stay home with the kids," but
won't ask. I know a woman who's good at this. She, once a
week, meets with her husband and says, "I'd really like
you to thank me for all these things I did in the house
and with the kids." And he goes, "Oh, this is great, this
is great." And praise really does have to be genuine, but
she takes responsibility for that. And a friend of mine,
April, who I've had since kindergarten, she thanks her
children for doing their chores. And she said, "Why
wouldn't I thank it, even though they're supposed to do
it?"
So, the question is, why was I blocking it? Why were
other people blocking it? Why can I say, "I'll take my
steak medium rare, I need size six shoes," but I won't
say, "Would you praise me this way?" And it's because I'm
giving you critical data about me. I'm telling you where
I'm insecure. I'm telling you where I need your help. And
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I'm treating you, my inner circle, like you're the enemy.
Because what can you do with that data? You could neglect
me. You could abuse it. Or you could actually meet my
need.
And I took my bike into the bike store-- I love this
-- same bike, and they'd do something called "truing" the
wheels. The guy said, "You know, when you true the
wheels, it's going to make the bike so much better." I
get the same bike back, and they've taken all the little
warps out of those same wheels I've had for two and a
half years, and my bike is like new. So, I'm going to
challenge all of you. I want you to true your wheels: be
honest about the praise that you need to hear. What do
you need to hear? Go home to your wife -- go ask her,
what does she need?Go home to your husband -- what does
he need? Go home and ask those questions, and then help
the people around you.
And it's simple. And why should we care about this?
We talk about world peace. How can we have world peace
with different cultures, different languages? I think it
starts household by household, under the same roof. So,
let's make it right in our own backyard. And I want to
thank all of you in the audience for being great
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英语演讲稿：别吝啬一声感谢带怀感恩心，不敢忘却那些曾经给过自己帮助的人。在感恩节这个特别的日子里，总有一些人让你想起来就觉心头一暖，想要声对他们说一声感谢！下面小编为大家分享一篇英语演讲稿：别吝啬一声感谢，希望你喜欢。英语演讲稿：别吝啬一声感谢Hi.I'mheretotalktoyouabouttheimportanceofpraise,admirationandthankyou,andhavingitbespecificandgenuine.AndthewayIgotinterestedinthiswas,Inoticedinmyself,whenIwasgrowingup,anduntil...
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